why we determined to homeschool

sharing extra about how lengthy we intend to homeschool, and why the heck we’re doing it with just a bit over a month left of the college yr. 

Hello mates!

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For at this time’s publish, I needed to share a bit of bit extra about our homeschool journey and what’s happening. I’ve alluded to the truth that we’ve had a tough time the previous few months and it’s been tough to navigate how and what to share. I’ve at all times been open with you guys in terms of my life, however the aim of the weblog has at all times been to share MY expertise; not my youngsters’s. It’s a difficult line to stroll, particularly once they’re an enormous a part of my life and I really feel like so a lot of you’re part of our household. On the identical, I by no means need them to really feel like their privateness has been invaded by what I share right here, so I’ve at all times tried to take a fragile method to my content material, particularly as they’ve gotten older.

The nutshell model is that this: we ended up transferring Liv to a different non-public college in January. We have been all scuffling with the mind-boggling quantity of homework, assessments, and assignments. It was particularly arduous along with her competitors dance schedule. We switched studios and minimize her hours in half, and he or she was nonetheless up till a minimum of midnight each night time (for the previous 2+ years) making an attempt to complete all the things for varsity. I’m an enormous believer in arduous work and I feel tutorial rigor has its place, but it surely was an excessive amount of for everybody. So, she switched and has been thriving.

When she switched colleges, it was the primary time P hasn’t had her huge sis at college, which was difficult for her. The Pilot additionally retired, which was an enormous transition, and he or she began to have extra frequent stomachaches. (Her abdomen has bothered her on and off for years, which has at all times nervous me since she had severe reflux as a baby and was on Prilosec and Zantac, which has been recalled for terrifying causes.) She noticed a number of docs, had an ultrasound, her abdomen was deemed “wholesome,” and their solely suggestion was to place her on a PPI once more. She was additionally doing CBT weekly, and typically twice per week. Her abdomen ache and anxiousness obtained so unhealthy that she missed many days of college, and we have been right here making an attempt to maintain up with the insane quantity of homework, classwork, and assessments.

The Pilot was residence for retirement and was educating her the content material, ensuring she accomplished the large packets of classwork, and taking her to high school for assessments. He had return to industrial airline coaching and I couldn’t fathom solo parenting, working, and making an attempt to maintain up with all the college work she was lacking, so I requested her to both select to return to high school or we may pull her out, and he or she mentioned, “Please homeschool me.”

I by no means supposed to be a trainer, however I’ll do something for our infants and if it’s what P wants proper now, I’m going to do it.

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Additionally price mentioning right here that I made a decision to do a Food Sentivity Test (and another purposeful labs) and obtained to the basis reason for some intestine points, and her gluten sensitivity was extreme. No marvel her abdomen was hurting :/ Since she began the protocols and eliminated gluten, her abdomen ache has vastly diminished.

Our plan now:

– She’s on the waitlist for Liv’s new college however realistically received’t be capable of get in till fifth grade

– We’ll homeschool till then and if she decides to return, that’s nice, and if she doesn’t need to, that’s okay, too.

The humorous factor is that I was actually cautious of homeschooling. Pre-kids thought to myself, “How on earth can a guardian count on to show their youngsters extra successfully than a trainer?”

Through the women’ time at school, we’ve had some extraordinary lecturers who’re all the things lecturers must be. They love youngsters, love what they’re educating, they’re above and past. However on the identical time, some lecturers are…not good. They are saying weird issues at school, disgrace youngsters in entrance of their friends, and this occurs in a non-public college atmosphere ALL the time, if you end up paying to your child to be taught by instructors who don’t appear to love youngsters in any respect. A overwhelming majority of the time, we spent the three to 4 hour block every night time educating anyway, as a result of they weren’t taught the content material throughout their lessons.

Rising up, I additionally thought that homeschooled youngsters have been in all probability awkward as a result of they don’t have as a lot social interplay. The fact is that all the homeschooled youngsters I’ve met are form, articulate, pleasant, and extremely good.

Though I’ve seen mates homeschool and sort of daydreamed about how how enjoyable it will be, I didn’t think about it a risk as a result of I work at home, juggling consumer calls, content material creation, podcast interviews, Zooms, IHP work, and so on. I didn’t really feel like I may add one other issues to my plate, however I didn’t even assume twice about it after we obtained so far. I’ve shuffled my schedule round rather a lot so that the majority of my content material creation is finished over the weekend, and the sweetness about homeschool is that it solely takes round two hours every day at this age.

This publish is already tremendous lengthy, so I’ll share one other publish quickly with the curriculum we’re utilizing and the way we construction our days.

Thanks to your kindness and being so wonderful over the previous few months. It’s been a tough yr in some ways (this is only one of them) and being right here with you all every day is a significant vivid spot. We completed our first full week of homeschool and I’m feeling fairly excited and hopeful about it! I’m additionally grateful that we get to spend some additional time collectively and are trying into all the cool homeschool actions that Tucson gives!

xoxo

Gina